FAMILY BUZZ

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Summer Fun Ideas!

Art - inside or outside, find things to create with… sticks, rocks, leaves, crayons, markers, scissors, glue, “junk” for sculptures (milk lids, styrofoam, popsicle sticks, etc.). Paint the sidewalk with water… what happens?

Bowling - Children ages 2 -15 years can sign up for free bowling! KidsBowlFree.com

Build - make a blanket fort, what can a cardboard box be?

Choo Choo Bob’s Train Toy Store & Interactive Play Space: Story time and live music, Union Depot 214 4th St. E Saint Paul, admission to play space $10 kids, $2 adults Check website for days and hours choochoobobstrainstore.com Great rainy day activity!

Dodge Nature Center - Free walking trails. 365 Marie Ave W West St Paul dodgenaturecenter.org

Garden - plant flowers, herbs, veggies.  If you don’t have a yard, plant lettuce in a pot. Children are more excited to eat something they’ve helped to grow.

“I Spy” Neighborhood walks - Take walks often, each time looking for something different: numbers, letters, colors, animals, insects, traffic signs, etc.

Journal - keep a small notebook of things you do this summer.  Children can draw pictures and dictate the words to be written down.

Library day - designate one day a week (or every other week) as “library day”  Check out the website to see when storytime is at your local library www.hclib.com  READ EVERYDAY!

Museums - Children's Museum (EBT cardholders $3), Mill City Museum (kids 4 & under free, EBT cardholders free), Minneapolis Institute of Art (free), Science Museum ($3 for those on assistance),  Walker Art Center (kids free, EBT cardholders $2),

Parks - check out different parks/playgrounds in the area.  Visit the wading pool or beach.  Have a picnic lunch or dinner. Some parks have concerts, movies and classes. www.minneapolisparks.org  www.ThreeRiversParks.org  

Playdate - call a friend to meet at the park or come over to play. WWP will host a few playdates at Whittier Park this summer. Stay tuned for dates.

Relax - lay in the grass… What do you see, hear, feel?  Take time to rest!

Sculpture Gardens - Free!  www.walkerart.org  See the spoon & cherry, blue rooster and so much more!  If you’re up for a little road trip, check out Franconia Sculpture Garden 29836 St. Croix Trail Shafer, MN. franconia.org Create your own sculpture at home afterwards.

VBS - Come to Calvary’s “Eye Spy” Vacation Bible School, June 17-19, 5:30 - 7:30 PM, dinner included. 3 years and up. Free Contact amy@calvarychurchmpls.org for more info or to register. Ms. Ann will be there! Or check out your neighborhood church!

Woodlake Nature Center - Free!  www.WooklakeNatureCenter.org  

6710 Lakeshore Dr. Richfield  Explore the great outdoors and visit the nature center. They have a great indoor area for rainy days. 

Zoo - Como Zoo & Conservatory in St. Paul is free!

Additional Resources: familyfuntwincities.com

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Fostering Resilience in Ourselves and Our Families

from Parent Connect - March 24, 2025

What is resilience? 

Resilience is the ability to cope with, adapt to, and recover from stressful or challenging situations. It involves maintaining emotional and mental well-being in the face of adversity.

How can we help foster resilience in our children and ourselves?

Take good care of yourself and model it for your child.

  • Eating healthy

  • Exercise - move your body

  • Rest

  • Spiritual practice - praying, worship, meditating, mindfulness, etc

  • Artistic expression

  • Spend time in nature

  • Mental health - seek professional help as needed

Build a strong parent/child bond

Studies show that having at least one strong, stable adult relationship (parent, caregiver, teacher, etc.) is the single most important factor in a child being successful at overcoming hardship. https://developingchild.harvard.edu/resources/inbriefs/inbrief-the-science-of-resilience/ 

  • Show affection

  • Respond consistently to your child’s needs

  • Maintain a daily routine/ family rituals - regular mealtime routines, bedtime routines

  • Talk with your child about the challenges and difficult times you may be experiencing with simple, age appropriate language. Because saying “nothing is wrong” can be more stressful than acknowledging the tension.

Cultivate positive social/emotional skills and model them with your child.

  • Self awareness (What pushes my buttons? What gives me peace?)

  • Emotional regulation - Use calming techniques, like deep breathing.

  • Practice gratitude

  • Develop optimism and hope for the future.

  • Participate in things that bring you joy. Play together as a family! 

  • Practice self compassion. Be gentle with yourself.

Lean into your social network. Build strong, healthy connections with others.

  • Family

  • Friends

  • Community - neighborhood, faith community, cultural community

Embrace growth and learning

  • View challenges as opportunities for personal development

  • Learn from setbacks and adapt your strategies as needed

  • Seek out new experiences and expand your comfort zone.

Establish a sense of purpose

  • What gives your life meaning?

  • Set goals for yourself

  • Volunteer in your community individually or as a family (clean up at the park, etc)

Resources:

https://www.inclusivechildcare.org/resource-library/document/learning-cope-building-resilience-yourself-and-your-child

https://www.naeyc.org/resources/blog/families-lay-your-burdens-down 

https://www.inclusivechildcare.org/resource-library/document/building-resilience-young-children

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ADVENTUROUS PLAY

Parent Connect 2/13/2025

The following information is from a class that the staff took in 2023 from Penn State’s Extension program: "Adventurous Play: The How's & Why's"

What is Adventurous Play?

  • Risk taking

  • Trying new things

  • Pushing the limits

  • Messy play/art

  • Sensory play

  • Heavy lifting/pushing

  • Spinning, hugging, squeezing, rocking, being upside down, balancing

  • Using dangerous tools

  • Being near dangerous elements (water, sticks, rocks, fire)

  • Heights

  • Speed

  • Rough & tumble / Wrestling/  “Big body play”

  • Playing alone

Touching what’s in a pumpkin is “adventurous play”.

What are the benefits of Adventurous Play?

  • Problem solving skills

  • Self confidence

  • Knowing one's limits - less likely to get hurt

  • Persistence

  • Being a good reader

  • Improved focus

  • Prepares one to learn how to drive

  • Physical strength

  • Having a growth mindset… the power of “yet”.  “I can’t do it YET, but I will!”

  • Self control

  • Resilience

  • Social development - teamwork, relationships

Apprehensions/Worries/Barriers to Adventurous Play

  • Safety - getting hurt

Talk them through it. When a child embraces risk, our first instinct may be to remove them from the situation or warn them to “be careful.” A more meaningful response is to talk them through the risk. This way, we build children’s risk assessment and confidence. Before jumping in, take a moment to observe your child. What are they working on? What are the potential risks they face? Encourage them to think about or remember a goal for their activity (perhaps to reach the top of the play structure or the next branch). Then, invite them to tell you how their brain and their body feel as they work toward it. Siblings, same-aged peers, and friends are also good candidates for talking through risk with children.

  • Worry about dangerous tools - someone getting hurt

  • Rough & Tumble/Wrestling/Big Body Play - too rough

What are we doing at WWP to encourage Adventurous Play?

  • Playground - mud kitchen, downspout, sand play, climber/slides (climbing up slide), rocks, sticks, snow, ice

  • Gym - tumbling mats, trampoline, climber, hanging bar

  • Sensory table - water, sand, rice, etc.

  • We narrate what the kids are doing. Talking about how they’re using their bodies.

  • Tools - hammering

  • Messy art - finger paint, shaving cream, etc.

  • Science exploration & experiments: pumpkin carving, ice, etc.

  • Sensory play - playdough, glurch, sand, snow

  • Circle time: dancing, singing, musical instruments, yoga

  • Cooking projects: tasting new foods

  • Sledding

  • Field trips - going to new places, having new experiences

Ideas to try with your family:

  • Big Art - paint/color large cardboard box

  • Tools - hammering golf tees into styrofoam or cardboard

  • Letting them cut using a kid knife

    Additional Resources:

"Encourage Your Child With Risks During Play" from NAEYC

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Exploring Kindergartens

Minneapolis Public Schools - Free

Here's the link to the Minneapolis Public Schools Website to learn more. 

There are options to choose from: your neighborhood community school and magnet schools which focus on various interests or learning styles (ex. language, arts, STEM science technology engineering math, Montessori, World school).

Minneapolis Timeline:

  • Beginning mid-November: Explore options 

    • Visit the website to learn more

    • Go tour schools

  • January 31, 2025: Due date to be included in the first school request lottery.

  • April 1, 2025: Due date to be included in the second school request lottery.

  • May 2024: Register at your school

Charter Schools - Free

Charter schools receive government funding but operate independently of the established local public school system. 

Here's a link to a directory of charter schools.

Private Christian School Options - Tuition, scholarships available

If you don’t live in Minneapolis, please check your local school district’s website for options and timelines for enrolling.

We are happy to walk alongside you in this transition.  Please see Ms. Ann if you need any advice or help making a school request.

Early Childhood Screening - If your child is 3 years or older please make an appointment for a screening with the school district. For Minneapolis: 612-668-3715 screen@mpls.k12.mn.us They will be coming to WWP to do a screening in March - watch for a sign up!

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“Social/Emotional Development: Raising Compassionate Kids”

Thoughts from Parent Connect 12/5/2024

From Psychology Today, “Raise Compassionate Children”: The Value of Compassion -  Developing compassion starts with the recognition that we are not isolated creatures, but rather individuals who are a part of many groups-communities, races, religions, nationalities, and citizens of planet Earth-that must coexist to survive. Compassion enables us to feel empathy for others and to put others' needs ahead of our own when necessary. 

Some thoughts from our discussion:

  • Social/ Emotional Developmental Milestones:

    • 2-3 year olds are beginning to recognize others’ emotions, show concern for others by trying to comfort or help them. 

    • 3-4 year olds can label others’ emotions and show compassion through words or actions.

  • Children learn by example. Be a compassionate role model and invite your child to be involved: take a meal to someone, donate unused items, help a neighbor clear their sidewalk.

  • Narrate what you are doing, “My friend is having a hard time, so I’m going to keep her company.” “Your sibling looks upset, let’s see how we can help.”

  • Help your child learn how to regulate their strong emotions: deep breathing, taking a break, etc.

  • Make caring for the world, others and justice a focus. Help your child to notice what’s fair and what’s unfair. How can we help to make things more fair?

  • Surround yourself with a caring, compassionate community - friends, neighbors, faith community.

Resources:

From Harvard “7 Tips For Raising Caring Kids”
13 Ways to Raise Caring and Compassionate Children

From Psychology Today, “Raise Compassionate Children”

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